Let’s Face It Part 2
I started this 3 part series as a gift giving aid and a help for women to suit their jewelry choices to their face shapes. By making choices that suit the shape of your face, you lower the risk that you will buy something on impulse that does not look right once you get it home and try it on. Let’s face it, we have all done this. Also, for men, it’s a great way to help you decide what to buy the women in your life. You all have sisters, moms and wives or girlfriends, and there are plenty of holidays that call for gifts. Christmas, birthdays, Valentines Day and Sweetest Day, Mothers Day and oooops, I’m sorry days. Be sure and check out Part 1 for round and square shaped faces. In this post, I’m going to talk about heart or diamond shaped faces.
Let’s start with earrings. You think they are an easy gift to choose until you start looking at all the different styles. For heart shaped faces, you want to look for styles that draw the eye sideways, horizontally to add width to a small and often pointy chin.
Pear shapes and triangles with the wide part at the bottom or fan shapes are the best. Upside down hearts would also work.
When considering necklaces, think about the necklines that look best with heart shaped faces. Boat necks are a great choice, drawing the eye from side to side.
For this neck line the necklace should echo the line of the garment and not crowd the face. Chunky beads are perfect. Assemblage pieces draw the eyes out and away from the chin.
Off the shoulder necklines have the same appeal at boat necks and often look similar.
Simple round one strand necklaces are best with this neckline or a simple collar like this one.
If you love cowl necks, go for the higher cowls, not the deep cowl neckline. You have interest at the neck but are not drawing the eye downward too much.
Remember, with any cowl neck, it’s earrings you want to feature, not necklaces. A brooch is also great with a cowl neck like this.
If you really love V-necks or lower cut round necks you can still wear them. Just add a light jacket or sweater with wide lapels or other interest to draw the eye outward instead of down. Again, a simple one strand piece keeps the eye at the neck and holds it there. A brooch on the lapels is another piece that you can wear that does not draw the eye downward.
Hopefully, this has been helpful to help you choose holiday gifts. Remember, if you “like” my facebook page, you can find albums for each type of face with earrings and necklaces that go with each. And if you subscribe to this blog, contact me and I’ll email you two downloadable pictures with earring and necklace styles for each face type.
Wheel of the Year: Yule
We are here on the Wheel. Again and yet again, it is pointed out that Yule is a lesser “holiday” for pagans and not such a huge deal as the Christian Christmas has become. There are many websites which will explain all the ways in which pagan traditions were taken to make up the traditions that manifest at Christmas, the tree, the Holly King, the sweets, the mistletoe and more. I’m not one to repeat all that here.
Yule is important because it marks the longest night of the year. The days have gradually become shorter until winter arrives and while Winter is nowhere near done, Yule marks the promise that Light will reign again. From this day forward, each day will become a bit longer, the light will last longer. It’s a promise of Spring and Summer that seem so far away.
These days, it’s easy to forget that. We have electricity and furnaces and food in plenty. At this time of year, I am always amazed that in older times, people would have such faith in the turning of the seasons that they would feast on the darkest of days. Think about it.
Their homes were drafty and cold. Even when the harvests were good, they didn’t have the means to store food like we do. Their lives depended on what they had stored from the harvest and what the men could hunt. On December 21st, they still had the coldest months of January and February to depend upon their food stores then March before they saw a hint of fresh herbs growing wild. Game was scarce. Animals stuck close to their dens and men close to their fires. Yet, every year, from the humblest of towns
to the high halls of the lords
the lady of the house would take stock of her stores and lay out a feast for Yule. What faith that must have taken! To use the best of what you had to celebrate the coming of Light when you could not know if you would have enough to last through the coldest months!
That is the magic of Yule for me, that incredibly enduring Faith. I am always mindful of it as this season comes. I wonder that it does not get “lost” in our mad scramble for gifts and decorations. I try to take time to reflect on what really matters, not what gifts I can buy but what gifts I can give, of my time, my love, stories, food and just sharing good energy. Call old friends, forgive someone, laugh with children, share joy and light, the riches you have and have faith that these are things you will not run out of.
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Celebrate the birth of the child of Light
Let’s Face It Part I
Have you ever fell in love with a piece of jewelry, bought it, then did not like it when you wore it? It seemed so right at the shop but when you actually put it on, it looked all wrong?
The type of jewelry you should wear will depend upon your face shape. I’m going to do a 3 part series of posts about fashion and face shapes. I’ll give you a face type, tell you what sort of jewelry goes best with that specific face type and show you some examples.
Guys! this will be a HUGE help when you are trying to decide what to buy for the ladies in your life. And for everyone else, it’s not just your own shape you should consider, but an aid when choosing gifts for moms, friends, daughters and that Secret Santa gift you need for the job. I thought this time of year would be a great time to discuss gift giving help but actually, we need gifts all year long.
Let’s start with both round and square shape faces. We have the same goal with both…..to make the face appear longer, not wider, to draw the eye up and down instead of horizontal.
To draw the glance vertically we want long dangly earrings. chandelier earrings are great for this. Triangle shaped earrings are good if the wide part of the triangle is at the top and the slim point is at the bottom. If you have a curve, make sure it faces inward, not outward. Long drops, tassels, and dangling chains are good. Diamond shapes are fine as long as the diamonds are long and thin, not like inverted squares. It also helps if there is a bead drop from the bottom of the diamond.
these brushed copper and glass earl earrings are great for a round face, long and dangly and the heart shape just accents the vertical gaze
These moonstone dangles are great for a square face, the length draws the eye vertically and the round silver bezels soften the line of the jaw.
Keep the neckline of your clothing in mind when you choose necklaces. Don’t buy turtlenecks for ladies with short necks or round or square faced. They crowd the chin and bring the eye right back up topside. We want it going up and down remember? You want a neckline that pulls the eye downward toward the bosoms so avoid boat necks which pull the eye side to side.
Scoop necklines are great for pulling the eyes down. Ladies with square faces look best with a rounded scoop neck. The curve of the neckline will soften the lines of the jaw.
Round faces seem to have more definition with a square scoop neck.
When choosing necklaces, do not buy pieces that are very short, like chokers or collars. they crowd the face. Choose pieces that are over 20 inches long. Long dangly pendants are best. They bring the eye downward. Avoid large chunky beads near the face or layers of chain. Assemblages pieces are not ideal. Large amounts of eye interest across the neck will take the eye horizontally again. The best assemblage pieces will feature a minimal assembly with dangling charms.
A great piece for either type face but especially square. The oval shape of the pendant lengthens the face while the feminine ribbon and minimal amount of beads will soften the lines.
A half hang necklace with its symmetrical curves which features a beautiful focal is a great addition for both these necklines and these face types. A round face would want a focal that is not round but oval or rectangular. Ditto the square face type. Square faces want soft curves Triangle shapes are also great. Again, dangles from the focal do no harm.
Cowl necks are also great. And they are wonderful for displaying long dangly earrings!
Tube tops in summer and strapless dressy dresses are also fine. Attention is taken from the face and downward. Wear simple pendants on chain or cord or boho style pieces.
V-necks are perfect for both face types, again, focusing the eye downward. For V-necks, you do not want elaborate pieces but simpler types of beautiful pendants that you want to show off.
Here is one other thing to consider when selecting gifts. Size matters! Larger ladies will not look best in tiny delicate pieces. The piece will “get lost”, appear too small. Fuller figured ladies can wear beautiful bold pieces with no problem at all and bold chains and dramatic beads. Yaaaay
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One last thing. If you “like” my facebook page, you can check out more types of jewelry to get better ideas. I’ve created special albums for face types with examples of pieces that look well with specific face types. It will be easier than checking back with this blog when you go shopping. If you subscribe to this blog and email me that you did, I’ll email you 2 downloadable charts that will help you choose pieces both for yourself and others.
Wheel of the Year: November
October’s brilliant foliage is but a memory, the bright leaves of autumn lie brown and damp on the ground. The view from my window is bare tree and grey sky most days, the earth damp and brown.
Days are long (and mostly wet here in Ohio) and nights come early. The chill outside makes the nights perfect for curling up with a great book or snuggling with your furry friends. Nosey loves to perch on the arm of my chair and as soon as I start petting him, Vato puts his head on my lap and wants attention given to his ears. It’s also perfect weather for a warm fire if you are lucky enough to have a fireplace and for twinkling candles. It’s the quiet time between wiccan festivals, a time of turning within. It’s also perfect for fire magic. Whether warm fireplace embers or candle burning, flames have always been powerfully magical. Fire enhances visualizations, meditations, divination and spellwork.
I like to get my candles ready after Samhain. They need to be “dressed” (with the appropriate oil) and stored wrapped in white linen cloth until I want to use them. I like to make house blessing candles and healing candles for winter “blahs” and negativity and maybe a money or prosperity candle just for that extra increase I need for the season. A great gift for a friend is a tranquility candle to help with the stresses of the holiday season. Use a light blue candle and put it on a white dish surrounded by blue chalcedony stones.
Even if you are not pagan, you can empower candles with magical energy. Magic, after all, is simply enhancing the possibilities. Choose the right color candle for what you want.
White = purity, truth, spirituality
Red = strength, love, energy, courage, passion
Blue = peace, tranquility, understanding, patience, health
Natural = all purpose, purification
Green = prosperity, fertility, luck
Yellow/Gold = mental clarity, success, concentration
Brown = grounding, centering, neutrality
Pink = affection, romance, friendship
Black = protection, ward off negativity
Purple = meditation, clairvoyance, power
Silver/Gray = cancellation, neutrality, stalemate
Orange = encouragement, adaptability, stimulation, attraction
To “dress” a candle, take olive oil between your thumb and forefinger and rub it on the candle from the middle to the tip, then from the middle to the bottom, visualizing the energy that you want to happen. Pagans will certainly have natural oils or herbs to add to the olive oil to increase the energy.
When you burn it, be alone, have soft music playing if you want, visualize what you want to happen. If you want a tranquility candle, for instance, visualize peaceful scenes, a harmonious home, serene scenes. If you want, you can make up your own little rhyme or mantra, it does not have to be elaborate. When you have done this once, the candle is “charged” and each time you burn it, the energy radiates outward. Oh, and don’t toss away your candle stubs into the trash. You can reuse them to make new candles.
The end of November brings the Thanksgiving celebration. No matter what your religion, you can take one day to gather with friends and family to celebrate the blessings in your life. For some, this is the start of their shopping season, the mad search for gifts. For me, it is the end of the gift search. Mine have been set aside and are ready to be wrapped.
With luck, we may get a soft dusting of snow on Thanksgiving Day. Where I grew up, in New York, Thanksgiving Day was considered especially blessed if we got an inch of snow. Hunting season had started and the men would hunt until noon while the women cooked. The snow made it easier to track. For those of you who think hunting is but a cruel sport, you have never spent a long winter with very little food except what was brought in from the woods, the gardens and the streams we fished in summer. There were plenty of times when that venison in the freezer made the difference between something and nothing on our plates. Winter is sometimes the time of layoffs for people. Back then, Food Stamps were not an option. People made do with what they had, what they could hunt and fish and grow.
November is a good time for counting blessings, relaxing and rejuvenating as the Wheel of the Year turns. Enjoy!
1st Annual Danse Macabre Blog Hop
I am so excited to present the first ever (hosted by me) Danse Macabre Blog Hop.
Danse Macabre, in case you missed the post about this, is the Dance of Death, the dance we all must make through life on our way to the grave for we all must come to the same end, rich man, poor man, bagger man, thief, priest and pope. It’s the same end for everyone. What we do with our lives is more important than what we have or acquire so we should all celebrate life by laughing at death and the fears of “things that go bump in the night”. Our challenge was to take either a generic term for something macabre, like vampire or ghost or to choose a specific character from television, books or movies and design something for them. It did not have to be jewelry. It could be any type of craft. I had such a talented group of ladies sign up, I cannot wait to see what they all made!
Those of you who know me also know that our whole family is known locally as “The Addams Family”. We all love Halloween, the spooky, the scary and the weird and wonderful. I chose my designs for the television Adams Family for whom we are named.
I made this huge sugar skull for my “coffin book case” that my son built for me. It’s some definite Addams décor.
Here is my “pet bird” in his cage. You can see his tiny skeleton toy and if you look close, there is a tiny ceramic cattle skull in his nest. I just painted his cage black. He does not sing much, but I suppose that could be a good thing. Maybe Morticia can teach him some French.
Now for some jewelry. Morticia Adams is such a classy lady, I designed her this lacy cuff bracelet.
I also made her some “beerings” with Day of the Dead beer caps and a matching key fob for Gomez.
I made Lurch a key fob with a Hobgoblin beer cap. It sort of looks like Lurch!
This bat gargoyle moon necklace has brass stampings and filigree
A pair of bat wing earrings for Morticia’s other black dress
and, maybe my favorite thing……….this “mummy’s mirror” necklace with such a weird cabochon and brass filigree
Yes, I went crazy loco. I made lots more stuff but will put that on my Facebook page. For now, I hope you will go visit my friends and see what dances they are doing.
Lee Koopman Strega Jewellry
Sam Waghorn Pale Moon Creations
Dini Bruinsma Angaza by Changes
Mowse Doyle Mouse Made This
Robin Showstack The Crazy Bead Hoarder
Amy Jorgensen Hoarders Corner
Nan Smith Wired Nan
Tammy Adams Paisley Lizard
Catherine King Catherine’s Musings
Michelle McCarthy Firefly Designs Studio
Betony Maiden Beadwenches Blog
Becca White Morgana Fey Creations
Kim Dworak Cianci Blue
Tami Norris Tamis Creative Spot
Inge Von Roos Inge’s Blog
Terry Jeanette Carter Tapping Flamingo
Deb Fortin Mhoti Studio
Melissa Trudinger Bead Recipes
Wheel of the Year: Mabon
Most pagans live their lives by the turning of the year. We pay attention to nature and attune our bodies and minds to the cycles of the seasons. I’ll be adding blogs posts all year about the seasonal celebrations we observe. Some, like Mabon, are lesser observances. You know Mabon as a solstice or equinox. Most folk pay no attention at all. September is the time when kids go back to school. Stores are full of Halloween and Christmas decorations in an attempt to lure people into spending money.
Pagan “holidays” or celebrations are called esbats and sabbats. Esbats are the lesser observances, sabbats, the greater celebration.
This is our wheel of the year.
In September, the harvest is our focus. The abundance of food is slowing down and the focus is on crops of the vine. Days are warm and nights cool off. There is plenty of work to do outside during the warm and often windy days. Brush must be cut and stacked in and around the firepit. It will be nice and dry and ready for the Halloween bonfires.
Weeds will be pulled a final time and stacked in the compost heap. My strawberry patch is finally weed free for the runners to grow unencumbered and I have circles the plants with oyster shell for extra calcium to enter the ground over winter. Clothes can be hung on the line and the winds whip the wrinkle free. Bed linens are washed and the warmer blankets come out of the cedar chest, filling the house with that subtle scent. Tomato vines are pulled and the green tomatoes left to ripen in a sunny window. Herbs are gathered and hung to dry. The parsley is cut back and the sage, the chives and lemon balm. Russian sage is cut and put into a glass vase to spread its scent. Potting soil is mixed with vermiculite and put into a tub for easy reach when starting seeds in the spring. The rest of the garden is cleared.
It’s also a time for planting. root vegetable can have a second plating. Carrots and beets and kale can be planted in early September and grow until the snow flies. This year I read about “fairy carrots”. I’m going to try it. You can plant 3 or 4 carrot seeds in mason jars. By thanksgiving, you will have baby carrots for your dinner. This will be great to show the little kids how root vegetables grow. Some herbs are actually better for having cold winter months to germinate before they pop up in the spring. This year, I am adding aconite to my plants. Aconite is better known as wolfsbane, a deterrent to werewolves and I thought the grandboys would get a kick out of planting this. We whall see what comes up in the spring.
I’ve spent a lazy summer sitting in the shade reading books. The heat just tires me OUT! This weather energizes me. I still read outside in the cool evening, enjoying the crickets songs. The hens will be ready to lay eggs in about 4 weeks. They go to bed earlier now. By 7:30, they are in the roost. My bird friends also go to bed earlier. Now they are flocking and I can hear so many of them in the trees at night. They are getting ready tor their long journeys. Geese fly overhead in formation in the evening hours. They have practice runs now, also getting ready to fly south. Their cries mark the official end of summer and the readiness for the cold changes to come.
Yes, I have been incredibly lazy this summer in the stifling heat and humidity. With the changes, I become energized. I begin to make links and jumpring rosettes for projects I will work on this winter.
I begin to craft some fall jewelry. Here are some beads I won in a giveaway from Terra Rustica Designs. Perfect fall colors. I made them into such a pretty necklace! Her sandblasted pendants are gorgeous and these beautiful beads with terra cotta color, green and amber remind me of fall’s gorgeous color palette!
today, I took some of my new ripe tomatoes and made a big pot of chili. Every September, when I do this, I think it is the best chili I EVER made! I can almost taste the sunshine. I put it in the freezer. It will be my Mabon feast meal along with home made bread. And the wheel turns.
It’s Official!
Signups ended and I have a good turnout for the Danse Macabre Blog Hop. By almost unanimous vote, the official badge is this one. Please note that this graphic is courtesy of Grapic Stock, modified with Picmonkey of course.
Grab the badge and put it on your own page. Here’s the link to use https://stregajewellry.wordpress.com/dansemacabre
You can put it on your sidebar to direct your readers to the post.
Ladies, we have a small group which makes me happy since this is the first hop I have ever hosted. It might be small, but there are some great designers here and all have active blogs. Now, if anything changes, life gets in the way and you can’t participate, please notify me before the hop so we do not have dead links. A dead link will stop the hopper “dead” in their tracks and we do not want that! We are dancing after all. The other good news is that everyone who signed up is a blog hop vet so I don’t think I have to remind you of blog etiquette. The reveal is August 17th. Join the dance as soon as possible after posting and be sure to leave comments. It should not take long to get through this list, just make sure to visit everyone. It’s part of the fun. I’ll be having a couple of giveaways too, so you might want to tell a buddy, bring a friend.
Ladies, here is our list of participants. You should be able to copy it from here and paste it into your own blog. Don’t forget the list so your readers can see what the rest of the group has made.
Starting, of course with your weird hostess:
Lee Koopman Strega Jewellry
Sam Waghorn Pale Moon Creations
Dini Bruinsma Angaza by Changes
Mowse Doyle Mouse Made This
Lori Blanchard Alainn Jewelry
Robin Showstack Hearts Desire Jewelry for You
Amy Jorgensen Hoarders Corner
Nan Smith Wired Nan
Tammy Adams Paisley Lizard
Catherine King Catherine’s Musings
Michelle McCarthy Firefly Designs Studio
Betony Maiden Beadwenches Blog
Becca White Morgana Fey Creations
Kim Dworak Cianci Blue
Tami Norris Tamis Creative Spot
Inge Von Roos Inge’s Blog
Terry Jeanette Carter Tapping Flamingo
Deb Fortin Mohti Studio
Melissa Trudinger Bead Recipes